BDSM TERMS 

The following  pages  contain  definitions of  BDSM ( BONDAGE ,DISCIPLINE,MASOCHISM, SADOMISM)  practices that I offer  on my  SESSIONS  page 

Abrasion play - using  an object with a rough surface eg sandpaper or a nail file  can cause a mild sensation on the skin .

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Edging  - bringing a  sub to the brink of an orgasm and not allowing to them to climax. 

Anal Training _ using butt plugs and dildos  to stretch the anus for anal play .

Face fucking - the practice of a Mistress  thrusting Her  strap -on or dildo into the mouth of a sub whilst holding their head .

Ass Worship   -  worshipping  the bottom of a Mistress with kisses , licks and  massages.

Face Slapping  -  the act of administering  hard slaps to a submissive's  face . 

Ball Busting  _ causing pain to  the testicles using different forms of  torture .

Figging -inserting a piece of ginger into a submissive's anus can  cause a burning  sensation .

Bastinado -  striking the soles of the feet with a cane to inflict pain .

Foot Worship -  worshipping  the feet of a  Mistress with kisses , licks or massages . 

Begging  -  when a submissive kneels and asks with humility to be punished by a Mistress . 

Financial Domination  -  worshipping  a Mistress with money , gift cards or  shopping trips . 

Bondage - different restraints  ( e.g handcuffs , a belt  or a spreader bar )  can  be used to restrict a submissive's  movements for  pleasure , role play etc . 

Gags   can be used to restrict a sub's  ability to speak or to bite down on. 

Boot Worship -  showing adulation for a Mistress's boots by kissing , licking or cleaning Her boots . 

Graphoerotic    the act of writing degrading words or phrases on someone's body .

Caning-   using a wooden cane as corporal punishment to strike someone on the bottom .

Cashpoint meeting  - at an arranged time and place  cash is withdrawn and handed over to a Mistress .

Chastity   the practice of using a special device to deprive a submissive of sexual relations or release . 

Clothed Female , Naked Male - is a common scenario in Female Domination , it emphasizes the male's vulnerability . 

Corner Time -  a submissive  stands or sits in a corner for long periods of time . 

Collar and Lead -  used to restrict the movements of a submissive  by their Mistress . 

Dancing -  being instructed to dance for the amusement of a Mistress .

Discipline - the practice of training someone to obey rules  or a code of conduct . 

High Heel Worship -  kissing , licking or cleaning the   high heels of a Mistress  .

Human Furniture   - a submissive's  body can be used as  a tray , a foot stool or a chair for long periods of time .

Humiliation    being humiliated e.g name calling , being ridiculed ,   or performing degrading tasks . 

J.O.I - Jerk Off Instructions -  Detailed instructions  given to a submissive  telling them when to climax  .

Key Holding  - a Mistress holds the key to a sub's chastity device , she controls who has access to it . 

Masochism - to receive  sexual pleasure from your own pain or humiliation . 

Nipple Torture  -  involves  administering pain by pinching or squeezing the nipples or by using nipple claps or long nails . 

Nylon Worship  -smelling , caressing, licking the feet  of a Dominant e.g a Mistress wearing nylon stockings or tights .